Friday, April 10, 2009

Little Siddhu goes to school

It was a milestone for the little one. He got up early, got ready without any fuss (unlike his brother ;-) and well...that was his first day of school. Both the brothers got in the bus and left. Siddhu didn't even whimper when the driver told us that we can't go together with him in the bus. Later, Shizu was in the school for some time observing him - and he was calm, composed and stayed friendly all the time.

And yes, he finished half of his lunch...

Sunday, November 16, 2008

little, fanciful flights!

Last Friday DPS International School organized their annual "kinder" concert. Shizu and I rushed from our respective offices to watch Yudhi's "speech and drama" performance. I have many raves and rants (actually only rants!) for the school but I reckon this is not the real platform. There is really NO platform to have any effective discussion because the school management is really non-reactive. They never reply to any emails, telephone calls or sometimes even notes in the child's diary. Anyway, we are stuck with this school so we are more or less resigned to the way they do things - inefficiently - despite all big words in their "speeches" at events.

Back to the Kinder concert, we went to the auditorium (a really far off place as the INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL doesn't have an auditorium!) there and for the first time since Yudhi started "performing" we managed to get a seat. Yudhi's performance was scheduled second and when he came up along with the rest of the children, dressed as a black ant, whoa, it was an awesome moment. I think we procreate not because we want to help the species survive but merely to survive ourselves. I am sure there are many people who do not want to have children but for me, having a child sort of makes you complete. A man (or a woman for that matter) is born incomplete - about 50% (well, the truth is that you CAN survive alone it's the quality of survival that makes the difference). A spouse adds 25% to his/her life and finally children give him/her the last bit to make a true human being.

Children need adults to fend for them and to provide the necessities of life but we adults need children as much (at least normal, ordinary adults do). And the routine of seeing them grow up is just amazing. Every now and then you observe then and realize that they are not what they used to be…and as they grow they become more and more independent…and the “Indian” in me makes me a bit insecure. I am brought up with the notion that families stick together for a lifetime and these days the young fledglings want to fly out in the big (bad) world as soon as it is feasible for them to…so there…anyway, I am learning every day and hopefully will be able to overcome this insecurity someday. Till then, I should just sit back and enjoy them spread their wings and try little flights in every which direction they fancy.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Yudhi's love for hotwheels

It's amusing and heartening to see Yudhi's passion for all things Hotwheels! Of late he has taken to "improvising" with different Hotwheel sets and coming up with weird (but definitely feasibly) scenarios. He has also take to watching videos of little boys - like himself - posted on http://www.hotwheels.com as part of some contest. THe boys keep repeating the tag line - Hotwheels. Beat That!! Since Yudhi has been watching it, he has taken to emulating the tagline too...but only Shizu and I burst out laughing when we realized that actually he misunderstood the words and had been saying "Beat Dad!" Now suddenly that doesn't sound so funny to me! Ha Ha.

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Two scary days at thomson medical centre

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It was a harrowing experience for both wife and me when Yudhi got salmonella (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Salmonella) infection. The poor kid had to suffer so much too and besides that everyone suffered in the house. First we took him to the local GP who gave him a painkiller through an injection and some paracetamol. The problem is that Yudhi just refuses to take medicine…any medicine. It becomes an uphill task to administer even the smallest, “tastiest” of a dose. It’s like taming a wild horse. Someone needs to pin his legs, and then arms, open his mouth wide some prevent him from closing it shut and then pour the contents through a syringe. Even then, he manages to gargle most of the medicine out. So you can imagine how tough and tiring it can be. Anyway, we have learnt the hard way to use suppositories instead. Yudhi’s doctor – Dr Terence Tan from Kinder Clinic in Mount Alvernia is really one of the finest pediatrician I have come across. He was the one who suggested using suppositories and we are ever thankful to him for that.

Anyway, so when the fever didn’t come down, vomiting and diarrhea continued, and the poor boy started crouching, grimacing in what was probably unbearable spasmic stomach ache, we didn’t wait any longer and brought him to the hospital – Thomson Medical Centre. The kind Malay doctor there advised us that as our previous GP, he too was not a specialist and only a family doctor. After some preliminary checks he advised us to contact Dr Tan and admit Yudhi for proper treatment. There was just no bed available at all – neither at Mt Alvernia nor at Thomson Medical Centre…so while we waited for Dr Tan, the doc gave Yudhi another pain killer. Dr Tan arrived within 10 minutes and started the checked Yudhi. Most likely, its salmonella, he informed us and mentioned that since the tests can take some time for the confirmation, he would start the treatment right away. He put Yudhi on an IV drip and administered the antibiotics…in no time and without as much as a cringe from my brave little soldier. Shizu and I were by his bedside throughout the day and we decided to take turns as Dr Tan said he would probably keep Yudhi in the hospital for a few days. Shizu volunteered to stay the night with Yudhi while I would go home and sleep with Siddhu. In the evening, Shizu went home to pick up some stuff and she brought Siddhu along for a visit. Siddhu was a bit alarmed at Yudhi lying in the bed with the drip but he too was brave and asked, “Yudhi, you okay?” a few times. We didn’t let Siddhu stay at the hospital for long and Anil (Bisht), who was visiting Yudhi, dropped us home.

Next day, was uneventful except for the fact that towards the evening Yudhi started experiencing terrible pain in his wrist because of the IV drip. Corinna (Cox) came down to visit Yudhi and brought some books and colouring stuff for him and that kept him occupied for some time. And when Dr Tan came for checking up on Yudhi, and as he saw the rather swollen vein, he told me that he would discharge Yudhi but we must ensure that he takes the antibiotic for five days. Well, we came home and somehow the antibiotic was administered and Yudhi went to school exactly seven days after he was admitted. And we just folded our hands and thanks the gods for our precious little one’s recovery!

Saturday, September 13, 2008

lantern festival sep 2008

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Mama bought two tickets for Yudhi and Siddhu to attend lantern festival organised by the local community center...two years ago too we had walked along Race Course Road with about 50-odd children and parents holding lanterns, observing the Chinese festival. This year we were late but didn't really miss much action...there were two goodie bags with paper lanterns, lollipops, and a dark brown mooncake. We witnessed some western classical music played by a young chinese girl while the boys played with their friends. As the boys couldn't wait to walk with the lanterns, we started on our own...and by the time we returned, all of the boys friends had gone...later Yudhi cried no end because he was expecting to win the "Grand Prize" at the lucky draw. What an anticlimax! But they had fun too...

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Monday, August 25, 2008

yudhi's first medal

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he was blindfolded, made to stand in a row (I was group three he informed me later) and then they started walking. he was fast, despite the fact that he couldnt see a thing. and he walked straight. i was budy with siddhu and a bit far off so i couldn't really see clearly. shizu was closer, armed with the videocam to record our wonder boy's first sports participation at the DPS annual sports day. it's a pity that the battery conked off just then...but shizu managed to capture some footage of yudhi runing his first race...err...walk. he was first...DPS was good enough to give him a medal, along with all his classmates just to encourage the little ones...and that was good!

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Yudhi's 5th birthday

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